Friday, March 27, 2015

Finding Mr. Right


As teen girls we are also wondering when we will meet "Mr. Right." Is he the kid that lives next door? Or is he the guy that you ran into while you were buying groceries? We really don't know when Mr. Right will just pop into our lives. Maybe he is already in your life and you just don't know it yet. 

did a post on my blog about this!

I understand it is so hard to be happy and waiting for the right guy to come along when all of your friends have boyfriends, and you are sitting here saying that your waiting for some special guy. And to be honest I don't have an answer on how to get rid of the feeling of loneliness when your around a bunch of couples. Lately I've been feeling super down about not having a special someone. I really want to be able to be content being single and not having someone at the moment. I want to be able to trust God and allow him to bring a special man into my life when the time is right. God does always knows the exact time that someone should enter your life. 

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  1. This is a great post because there are so many teenagers who always think they need to be in a relationship, great blog!
    -Jenna <3
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  2. I think the best way to keep our mind off being single is to use our single life to direct all our thoughts and actions to Christ. If we keep busy doing the work of God we won't have time to dwell on being lonely--because we will be fulfilled in Christ. I believe that God will bring the right one to us when we're busily and continually seeking Him. On our own we will never find the right guy for ourselves...but when we pursue Christ he will find them for us!

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    1. I completely agree! Well said, Brittney! :D

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  3. I never had a boyfried all through high school or even asked on a date. I know, that I was different than the rest of the kids in my class - my convictions made me stand out - almost unapproachable. I always felt bad about it, like what was wrong with me? I had lots of guy friends, just not a boyfriend. I felt like I was missing something. It wasn't until I was at NTC my second year, when I met my husband. I knew the first day I saw him that I was going to marry him...I just knew...he didn't of course. Looking back on it now almost 30 years later....I'm so happy I didn't waste my time on other boys that would not have been my "Mr. Right." Don't feel bad about it - rather, look on it as an adventure.

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    1. I think that is so cool, how the first guy that you dates was the guy that you marry. Its sad that it doesn't normally happen anymore, but it always shows that God does have someone special for you, whether you meet them in highschool or not until after.

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  4. Ashley, thank you so much for sharing this! I think a lot of young women feel the same way that you do. Recently it seems that all of my friends and sisters are thriving in their relationships, getting engaged and married. The struggle for me is to be content. It's not like I feel ready to get married or like I need to have a special someone in my life, but it is hard when it seems that everyone's moving on without you and you're kind of out of the loop.

    The key is to trust God always. Thanks again!

    a vapor in the wind

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    1. I completely feel ya. Especially when everyone around you has someone and your here with someone. But I think God also tests us to see if we can be content without someone.

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